Why does Social Services take a truck load of kids away from a set of parents, let them be adopted off, and then let those same parents have more kids? I don’t know the answer to that one but here is my siblings story.
After we were all taken away from our parents, they went ahead and had more. Then they had my bio brother move back in with them, after he left our house. There he would find out the abuse had never ended, but had just started again with a whole new set of kids. What my older brother grew up thinking was quite normal for a family to do, he was told to do to his younger sister, while our bio mother did what she pleased with my younger brother. My older brother had gone through this abuse since he was a young boy, now we know where his frustrations came from when he was in foster care.
I can’t imagine the pain he was feeling, and the emotions he went through during this time in his life, or even the things he goes through to this day trying to keep himself sane. One day I guess there was yelling and screaming going on and someone went and got my bio father from the farm, telling him something was going on in his home he needed to check on. Well he did and walked in on his son hurting the younger kids. Well I guess he started hitting him, and about that time the police got there. To make a long story short, he took the blame for the abuse to the kids and did a few years in prison. He didn’t want his son to be put away so he pleaded guilty to the chargers his son should have faced, along with his wife, but he took sole responsibility for it. Years later I would hear from the older girls that he had himself molested them as well, but when asked if it could have been our older brother, they really couldn’t put a finger on who it could have been, making them wonder too. They were all pretty young. Not that I doubt my bio father couldn’t have done any of this because I don’t, it is just there is so much grey area over that whole situation, it is just hard to know what is the truth.
I do know that my bio mother’s side has a deep history of this sort of thing, I thank God every day that this sickness didn’t pass down to me. Some how God saved me from these terrible things, and I praise him everyday for it. Not that we haven’t gone through this sort of thing because we have but that will come later when I hit upon a second generation of siblings being separated from one of my siblings.
So my younger sister and brother were of all things taken in by another Uncle and his wife. They thought since I had come out fine then this set would too, boy where they in for the ride of their lives.